not wanting to date someone because you aren’t physically attracted to them doesn’t make you an asshole
wanting to sit at home watching TV instead of hanging out with people doesn’t make you an asshole
cutting off a friendship that was not satisfying to you doesn’t make you an asshole
YES OKAY YES.
Your company, your friendship, or a sexual and/or romantic relationship is not something you are obligated to give anyone. These are all things that happen under the right circumstances, and if it’s not coming natural to you, it’s not bad if you don’t want to take part. A good friendship requires the right connection between people, and when it’s not there, no one should take it personally. A good relationship takes compatibility, where both people can get what they want out of that relationship, and wanting what some people can’t give you is not bad, and it shouldn’t be taken personally. And again along the lines of friendship, your time is yours to spend how you want to, be it with or without people. If you choose to be alone, even never go out to see people, you did nothing wrong, and if somebody is hurt by it, it really is their own problem you guys probably aren’t compatible enough for a friendship. You can not want this stuff without it saying anything about whether or not you like someone’s personality, if you care about them, if you respect them as a person, etc. You’re not doing anything wrong.
Uh yeah okay.